Lauren Webb: Leadership lessons – we rise by lifting (or training) others

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For many first-time managers, that step from executor to leader feels like a loss of identity. One week, they’re sitting shoulder-to-shoulder with colleagues, elbows-deep in the specialism they’ve spent years honing. The next, they’re having to loosen their grip on the work that once defined them, and carry accountability for outcomes they no longer personally control.

The way organisations prepare new managers during that early stretch decides whether they grow into talent multipliers, or retreat towards helicopter parenting. What matters most isn’t induction packs or generic leadership courses; it’s teaching them how to pass their craft on to others.

The tension behind promotions

Missing the certainty of a to-do list they can demolish before lunch, or the buzz of being the expert in the room, first-time managers often try to keep their sense of normalcy by hovering close to the work. They review everything, tweak slides at midnight, rewrite proposals that were already good. It rarely comes from ego or lack of trust but rather from care and a desire to feel useful.

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Teams, likewise, continue to view the newly promoted manager as “one of us”. They expect collaboration in the same way as before. They want to lean on the person who used to carry the hardest tasks. The manager, still emotionally attached to the work, is happy to oblige; it feels natural, it keeps projects safe, it preserves peer relationships.

But having managers cling to execution in this way is destructive. Everything slows down, no one grows, and the team stays dependent while the manager acquires a fetching pair of under-eye bags.

That in-between phase deserves careful organisational support. For me, it starts with helping new managers grow people who can take over the work they once owned.

Managers should want a team that wants their job

One of my favourite quotes about leadership is “You should want a team that wants your job”.

A manager surrounded by ambitious, capable people gains freedom to operate strategically and think “big picture”. They become known for building depth. They attract opportunities because the board trusts the bench behind them.

Managers should want their team to be more proficient at execution than they were, because every time a junior colleague solves a problem faster than they would have, it’s proof of their own success.

From a workforce planning perspective, this philosophy also strengthens organisational resilience. When development feels intentional, people work harder and stay longer, fortifying the business with a pipeline of exceptional talent.

Training first-time managers to train others

Just because someone excelled at delivery doesn’t mean they instinctively know how to develop others. Teaching is its own craft. New managers often understand what “good” looks like, yet struggle to explain it, break it into steps or coach someone through early mistakes.

Leadership development influences how well a new manager can diagnose capability gaps and grow others. Yet inside most organisations, time gets squeezed, priorities pile up and that kind of intensive support becomes hard to sustain at scale.

That’s where partnerships with training providers matter. External specialists bring the bandwidth to slow things down in the right places, giving managers space to practise teaching rather than simply reacting to the day job. Crucially, the consultative nature of these partnerships keeps training close to the grain of the business, shaping it around real pressures, real people and real decisions, so that development feels purposeful.

All of this gives mentoring some shape. Training providers help managers build simple, consistent habits for developing people: structured one-to-ones focused on skill progression, written growth plans that track capability over time and clear frameworks for setting stretch objectives.

Managers practise these approaches in training, receive feedback on how they run them, then carry them back into their teams. Over time, mentoring shifts from something done instinctively to something done deliberately, embedded in how leaders develop talent day to day.

Mentoring as a the bridge between then and now

Perhaps the biggest value of equipping new managers to teach their craft to others is that it softens the rupture of moving from execution to leadership. Mentoring gives them a way to stay intellectually and emotionally close to the work they love, while expanding their influence and dipping their toes into managerial life.

The natural consequence is that the manager feels more empowered to relinquish the reins of control. When they have personally shaped the judgement, standards and instincts of their team, high-stakes projects stop feeling risky to delegate and stepping back no longer feels like abdication; it feels like evidence of a system working.

That’s the beauty of building mentorship in new managers: satisfaction once drawn from one’s own flawless execution migrates towards watching others master the same skills. When organisations design leadership development around that, they catalyse the impact of their new leader, protect performance, and create deeper benches of talent.

We rise by lifting others

When leadership development programmes encourage mentoring and the deliberate handover of skill, organisations compound strength across generations of talent. That philosophy captures the essence of great leadership: we rise by lifting others.

Leaders who are forged in that way experience a new, more profound sense of success. Though their names may not appear on the commercial proposal, their fingerprints are everywhere. They graduate from builder to architect, and when that happens, management stops feeling like a loss of craft and starts feeling like a new horizon, where you can see your standards carried forward by others.

Teach new managers to teach, and impact, capability and organisational strength will follow.

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Lauren has over 15 years of experience working in post-16 education, specifically in the apprenticeship and commercial training sector. Lauren collaborates closely with organisations to design L&D programmes that align with business objectives, leadership development, and skills priorities, while also nurturing future-focused leadership pathways and ensuring every employee can contribute, grow and thrive.

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