The top HR executive at a US tech startup has been suspended after a viral video showed her embracing the chief executive during a Coldplay concert, a public moment now raising serious questions about professionalism, impartiality and trust in workplace leadership.
Kristin Cabot, chief people officer at Ohio-based software firm Astronomer, was placed on leave alongside CEO Andy Byron, according to sources quoted by news site Axios. The company has since launched a formal investigation into the incident, which has attracted tens of millions of views and widespread media coverage.
Cabot, who described herself on LinkedIn as “an influential leader and fearless change agent” who “leads by example” and “wins trust with employees of all levels”, now faces scrutiny over whether a personal relationship with the CEO compromised her role as head of HR.
The incident, captured on a jumbotron “kiss cam”, took place on 16 July at a Coldplay concert in Massachusetts. “Either they’re having an affair, or they’re just very shy,” Coldplay frontman Chris Martin said after the pair ducked out of view.
Astronomer issued its first public comment more than 24 hours later, saying on X: “Our leaders are expected to set the standard in both conduct and accountability. The Board of Directors has initiated a formal investigation into this matter.”
By the time the statement was released, spoof posts, memes and fake apologies had taken over the narrative. According to media analytics platform Memo, the scandal reached over 15 million readers, generating coverage volumes on par with major global events.
CEO resigns amid claims of toxic culture
Andy Byron, who had joined Astronomer in 2023 and served on its board, resigned on 19 July. Reports suggest his exit was delayed while severance negotiations were underway. Former employees have described his leadership style as “toxic” in social media posts reacting to the story.
The board has appointed co-founder and chief product officer Pete DeJoy as interim CEO. In its statement, Astronomer confirmed that no other staff were involved, and that another executive, Alyssa Stoddard, was not present at the event.
HR impartiality under the microscope
The situation has put a spotlight on whether senior HR professionals can retain credibility when personal relationships with other executives arise, especially when that executive is the CEO. Questions have been raised around conflict of interest, disclosure procedures and how such relationships affect the perception and delivery of internal investigations.
Cabot had joined Astronomer in late 2024. Her public messaging about trust-building and leadership has been widely shared — and questioned — in the wake of the footage.
Many observers have pointed to the company’s slow response as a significant factor in the reputational fallout. Communications strategist Andrew Koneschusky told Axios that in such moments, clarity was essential.
“Their reputations may be linked, but their interests may diverge,” he said. “The company needs to address whether any policies were potentially broken or [if] conduct needs to be investigated.
He added that the “CEO can choose to address the personal implications and ramifications of what occurred. But don’t conflate the two”.
Firm under pressure to show leadership on values
Astronomer, which provides data pipeline orchestration tools and is backed by Salesforce Ventures, Insight Partners and Bain Capital Ventures, said it ws “committed to the values and culture that have guided us since our founding”.
It remains unclear whether Cabot will return to her role. The board has not said how long the investigation will take, but the case has already become a lightning rod for debate over professional boundaries in leadership and the role of HR in holding executives accountable.
